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An intrapersonal relationship is something I never cultivated before. Since the introduction of the awareness practices I became more aware of the importance of a relationship with myself. By cultivating this relationship with myself, I found it easier to create new interpersonal relationships with others. My ability to listen to my staff has improved drastically. Via the awareness practices I became aware of the fact that there is an underlying message in a lot of the communications happening. I used to miss out on a lot of communications due to my inability to listen. Now being aware of my own feelings and emotions, I realized that everyone has emotions and feelings of their own, and by not listening to them I missed out on the bulk of all communications. Lastly, and surely the most significant impact on my leadership style, is the leadership example set by myself. As a bit of background, I used to be fairly aggressive, stressful and impulsive, and overall not a fun person to have as a manager. I am in the process of rectifying this situation by means of being more stress tolerant, to control my impulses, improve my ability to timeously identify problems, to generate effective solutions apposed to allegations, to remain objective and flexible. I now tend to be more attentive, to understand and to appreciate the circumstances, environment and feelings of my staff prior to decision making. As every individual's background is different I found that applying a certain level of empathy to decision making was not only to the benefit of the company but almost always also to the benefit of the individual. The impact on my home life was less significant than the impact on my professional life. However, to mention a few highlights, my entire outlook on life has changed; I am not taking myself so serious anymore. My general mood, which always used to be fed by stress, had an up-swing. Since I am more aware of my own feelings and also those of others, I tend to feel a bit more satisfied with my own life, which results in me being much more fun to have around the house. I've again realized the importance of intimacy and on the giving and receiving of affection in my personal relationships. ~ Anonymous ~ |